Where an attempt begins
Talk, fantasy, or planning on its own is generally not an attempt. The law looks for conduct that moved past preparation toward actually committing the offense, and New York courts ask how close that conduct came. An agreement with someone else to commit an offense is a different charge, conspiracy, with rules of its own. In many cases the real dispute is about what the person intended and what a particular gesture or movement meant. An attempt is usually graded below the completed offense, yet it can still be a serious felony with lasting consequences.
Online cases and sting operations
Many attempt cases begin online, often with an officer posing as a minor and an arranged meeting. In those matters the chat history is close to the whole case, and the question is usually what the messages show about intent and what steps followed them. Pointing out that the other person was not really a minor rarely ends the case by itself, because in many places, New York included, the law looks at the circumstances as the accused believed them to be. Do not delete accounts, chats, or apps, and do not try to log in to devices that have been seized. Requests from investigators for passwords should go through your lawyer.
The first steps after an accusation
If you have been arrested, the next court date and any order of protection come first, because both have immediate effects on where you can go and whom you can contact. We then look at what the prosecution says happened, what physical or digital evidence exists, and who else was present or nearby. Witnesses, location data, and messages exchanged before and after the incident can change how the moment is understood. We also go through the consequences that can follow an attempt charge as well as a completed one, including registration questions, so that every decision is made with them in view.