New York calls it maintenance
If you search for alimony in New York, you will find the courts using a different word: maintenance. The law uses a guideline formula built on both spouses' incomes, and a judge can depart from the result when it would be unjust or inappropriate on the facts. How long post-divorce payments last is guided by an advisory schedule tied to the length of the marriage, though it remains a judgment call. Payments can be temporary, covering the period while the case is pending, or set in the final judgment or agreement. Other states have their own formulas or none at all, so a figure a friend received elsewhere tells you very little.
The records that move the figure
Maintenance arguments are mostly arguments about income. Tax returns, pay records, bonus and commission history, business income, and benefits paid in kind all feed into what the court treats as each spouse's earnings. When one side is self-employed or paid partly in cash, the real figure is often the disputed one, and bank records and spending patterns become the evidence. Gather what you can lawfully reach in your own accounts and the shared household files, and sketch the regular costs of the life you have been living. Avoid opening your spouse's private email or phone to look for financial information; ask your lawyer how to obtain it through the case instead.
Questions settled at the outset
A first meeting usually establishes whether temporary maintenance should be requested now rather than at the end of the case. We look at the income picture on both sides, whether either of you has a realistic path to higher earnings, and whether a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement already addresses support. Health insurance, child support, and who stays in the home all interact with maintenance, so we discuss them together. Requests made later in a case are not always applied backward to the period you went without, which is one reason the timing deserves attention early. Bring recent tax returns and a rough monthly budget if you have them.