Guardians answer to the court
A court-appointed guardian is not free to act as they please. In New York, guardians file reports with the court and those reports are examined, so a record of what the guardian has done with the person's money and care usually exists. Interested parties can ask the court to compel an accounting, to modify the guardian's powers, to remove the guardian, or to require repayment where funds were mishandled. Disagreement with a guardian's reasonable judgment is not misconduct, and courts distinguish between decisions a family dislikes and conduct that breaches the guardian's duties. Where money is at risk right now, the court can be asked to act quickly while the larger dispute is heard.
Building a record
Start with the order and commission that appointed the guardian, since they define what the guardian was authorized to do. Then collect what you can show about the problem: dates of missed payments, notices of eviction or service shutoffs, care concerns raised with a facility, and any statements the guardian made. Reports and accountings filed in the case can sometimes be obtained through the court, and comparing them with what you know is often revealing. Keep your communications with the guardian civil and in writing. Visits and access to the person are frequently part of these disputes, and courts can address them.
When the guardian is the one facing claims
Guardians themselves are sometimes on the receiving end, accused by relatives of self-dealing or neglect when they believe they have acted properly. If you are a guardian under challenge, gather your records of every transaction, receipts, court approvals obtained before major steps, and your filed reports. In either role, a first meeting focuses on the specific decisions in question, what the order permitted, and what the court has already reviewed. We also weigh the cost of litigation against the person's estate, since contested guardianship proceedings can drain the very assets they are meant to protect, and fees may be paid from those funds.