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Rescission of Engagement

Cancellation of engagement is a procedure to terminate an engagement relationship before a marriage is established. Because legal liability such as damages may arise, rather than mere emotional conflict, careful judgment is necessary.

CONTENTS
  • 1. Rescission of Engagement | Grounds and Methods
    • - Valid Grounds for Rescission of Engagement
    • - Methods of Rescission of Engagement
  • 2. Rescission of Engagement | How to Respond to a Wrongful Rescission of Engagement
    • - Determining Whether Valid Grounds for Rescission Exist
    • - Reviewing Whether a Claim for Damages Is Possible
  • 3. Rescission of Engagement | Return of Engagement Gifts
    • - The Legal Nature of Engagement Gifts
    • - Criteria for Determining Whether to Return
  • 4. Rescission of Engagement | Practical Response Strategy and Checklist
    • - Divorce Attorney Support System

1. Rescission of Engagement | Grounds and Methods

Divorce attorney's definition and practice area for rescission of engagement



Rescission of engagement is a procedure accompanied by legal disputes such as damages and the return of engagement gifts.

Here, an engagement is a promise of marriage that is established by the mutual agreement of the parties to marry in the future, and as such it is a special contract that has certain legal effects under the Civil Act (Article 800 of the Civil Act).

Unlike a simple promise of a relationship, this has legal effect, and if it is rescinded without justifiable grounds, liability for damages may arise.

To determine whether the current situation amounts to an engagement, it is advisable to examine whether the following requirements have been met.

Requirements for an engagement


∙ Mutual agreement of the parties to marry

∙ Satisfaction of the legal requirements that make marriage possible (such as being of age)

∙ Substantial circumstances that can be recognized as an engagement under generally accepted social norms

Valid Grounds for Rescission of Engagement

An engagement may be terminated for justifiable cause in the following cases (Article 804 of the Civil Act).

∙ Where a person has been sentenced, after the engagement, to a punishment of suspension of qualifications or heavier

∙ Where a person has been subject to a judgment of adult guardianship or limited guardianship

∙ Where a person has an incurable illness such as a venereal disease or a mental illness

∙ Where a person has married or become engaged to another

∙ Where a person has had sexual intercourse with another

∙ Where a person's life or death has been unknown for one year or more

∙ Where a person refuses or delays the marriage without justifiable reason

∙ Where there is any other serious cause

Methods of Rescission of Engagement

Dissolution of an engagement is possible by a unilateral declaration of intent to the other party (Civil Act Article 805).

If the other party is unreachable, the engagement is deemed to have been dissolved at the time of becoming aware of the occurrence of the ground for dissolution.

2. Rescission of Engagement | How to Respond to a Wrongful Rescission of Engagement

Daeryun divorce attorney's practice area for consolation money in rescission of engagement



In a rescission of engagement, where it is rescinded unilaterally without justifiable grounds, where it has been rescinded unilaterally without justifiable grounds, the other party may claim damages.

In particular, if a person is unilaterally subjected to a broken engagement when wedding preparations are considerably advanced, serious mental and economic harm may arise, so legal protection is needed.

Determining Whether Valid Grounds for Rescission Exist

As examined earlier, Article 804 of the Civil Act enumerates justifiable grounds for cancellation of an engagement.

In addition, other grounds are limited to ‘serious grounds.’

In other words, a mere change of feelings or parental objection is generally not recognized as a justifiable ground.

Situations that may be assessed as unjustifiable cancellation

∙ Where one unilaterally breaks off the engagement simply citing a change of heart

∙ Where the engagement is cancelled solely because of the other party's parents' objection

∙ Where one cuts off contact without prior explanation while wedding preparations are substantially underway

∙ Where one cancels without justifiable reason after substantial preparations such as wedding goods and a wedding hall contract have been completed

However, where there are serious grounds as follows, they may be recognized as justifiable grounds for cancellation.


∙ False statement of education, career, or occupation

∙ Concealment of serious personal information, such as the fact of a prior divorce, the existence of children, a criminal record, or multiple debts

∙ Social misconduct such as gambling and drugs

∙ A fraudulent approach using marriage as a lure

Reviewing Whether a Claim for Damages Is Possible

Under Article 806 of the Civil Act, a person who improperly rescinds an engagement bears liability to the other party for both pecuniary and emotional damage.

Requirements for a Claim for Damages

∙ The engagement must have been rescinded without justifiable cause

∙ The party who rescinded it must be at fault

∙ There must be a causal relationship between the occurrence of the damage and the rescission

Examples of Materials Needed for Proof

∙ The wedding venue contract and the dress and studio contracts

∙ Airline tickets and records of wedding-related expenditures

∙ Records of the rescission notice, such as text messages and KakaoTalk

∙ Written statements from people around you

∙ Counseling materials and records to prove the emotional distress

Factors Considered in Calculating the Amount of Damage

∙ The degree of progress in the wedding preparations (economic damage)

∙ The circumstances of the broken engagement and the grounds for fault

∙ The degree of emotional distress

3. Rescission of Engagement | Return of Engagement Gifts

The need for assistance from a divorce attorney in the divorce group regarding the dissolution of an engagement



Upon dissolution of an engagement, whether betrothal gifts must be returned can also be an issue.

The Legal Nature of Engagement Gifts

Engagement gifts are generally given and received on the premise that the marriage will actually take place, so if the marriage does not take place, an obligation to return them arises.

This has a nature similar to a gift under the Civil Act.

Supreme Court Decision 96Da5506, decided May 14, 1996

The giving and receiving of engagement gifts is done to prove the formation of the engagement and, where the marriage is formed, for the purpose of strengthening the bond between the parties and the two families, so it
has a nature similar to a gift subject to the rescissory condition of the marriage not being formed,

Accordingly, if the marriage is not formed, their return may be claimed.

However, it is the established position of the precedents that a party responsible for the dissolution of the engagement cannot claim the return of the gifts that party gave.

Supreme Court Decision 76Meu41, decided December 28, 1976

The giving and receiving of engagement gifts has a nature similar to a gift subject to the rescissory condition of the marriage not being formed, but
a culpable party at fault with respect to the dissolution of the engagement has no right to actively claim the return of the engagement gifts that party provided.

Criteria for Determining Whether to Return

Situation

Whether return is possible

Engagement broken off due to the other party's fault

The betrothal gifts I gave may be returned

Engagement broken off due to my fault

I must return the betrothal gifts to the other party, and the gifts I gave cannot be claimed

Neither party at fault (mutual rescission, etc.)

Each party returns the betrothal gifts received

4. Rescission of Engagement | Practical Response Strategy and Checklist

Rescission of Engagement Damages Response and Methods for Claiming Consolation Money



A dispute arising from the rescission of an engagement is not merely a matter of emotions, but may develop into a procedure that determines legal liability.

Accordingly, the following points should be prepared for in practical terms before and after the rescission.

Points to Check Before Rescission

∙ Are there sufficient circumstances for it to be recognized as an engagement? (wedding preparations, a meeting between the two families, the exchange of betrothal gifts, and the like)

∙ Do legitimate grounds for rescission exist?

∙ Was the notice of rescission given in a manner that can be kept as evidence (text message, writing, and the like)?

∙ If harm was suffered, has the evidence of it (contract, expenditure records, and the like) been secured?

∙ Are there sufficient legal grounds for the return of betrothal gifts or a claim for damages?

Practical Strategy for Responding to Disputes

Issue

Response Strategy

Claim for Damages

Securing materials that prove the cause of rescission is attributable to the other party

(text messages, recordings, expenditure receipts, and the like)

Return of Betrothal Gifts

Organizing the timing of the exchange of betrothal gifts, the circumstances of the rescission, the question of fault, and the like, and preparing supporting evidence

Rescission by Agreement

A written agreement is recommended in order to settle the liabilities for return and compensation

Divorce Attorney Support System

Daeryun Law Firm has specialized attorneys who hold extensive experience and practical strategies regarding damages, the return of gifts, and conciliation procedures related to engagement dissolution disputes.

It provides comprehensive support, including the determination of grounds for engagement dissolution, claims for consolation money, and responses to the opposing party's demand for the return of gifts, as well as preparation of conciliation procedures and the formulation of litigation strategies based on precedents.


In addition, to help obtain just compensation for the monetary harm and mental suffering arising on the premise of marriage, it has established a comprehensive response system through a network linking divorce and family law attorneys and evidence investigation experts.


If you are in a situation requiring legal assistance, please feel free to request a legal consultation related to divorce at any time.

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